One of the blessings aging has bestowed on me is a major injection of humility. I may have a long way to go, but at least I’m headed in the right direction. Before I hit my 70s, I took false pride in my accomplishments. I did not take time to figure out what was really going …
I’m getting prepped for a wonderful Christmas day. Washoe Valley is carpeted in snow, with more coming over the mountains any minute. I’m surrounded by loving friends and family. I’m newly retired, and a good piece of each day is totally mine – a great gift for the days to …
William Miller has written another great book that helps me figure out where I’ve been and where I might choose to go. It’s titled “On Second Thought: How Ambivalence Shapes Your Life” and describes the ways ambivalence plays a huge part in big and small choices …
Yes, we have a new puppy: Jack Newson, the dog, not to be confused with Jack Newsom, the man (Sherry’s dad), or Jack Newsom, the boy (our grandson), or Jack Newsom, the cat (our long-haired beauty). Jack Newsom is 10 weeks old and staying in our house until he joins his four …
Last week, an evil power started to invade my personal space. At first, it was hard to identify, cloaking itself in buttered popcorn and a never-ending series of Seinfeld episodes. Then, this morning, it came at me full force: I actually was FEELING SORRY FOR MYSELF. …
My friend Bill Miller told me one wise thing to do as I age is to develop friendships with younger people. Since some of my older friends are sadly leaving me, I took it as good advice. So I went out and met two bright, young guys named Ryan and Nico, both in their early …
As I age, I become more courageous. Last week, I asked three of my best, old-time friends to tell me, straight on, what my worst habit is – the one that drives them absolutely bonkers. To loosen their tongues, I gave them a bottle of Rombauer Merlot and provided them with …
Around our house, I think I’ve earned the right to be called a co-captain. Part of aging is getting smarter. When I was young, in my 60s, I had this notion that Sherry and I would make joint decisions, like co-captains on a football team. What color should we paint the …
It’s so simple. Yet, I fail the test many times each week. In my newly acquired free time, I wish to hang out with individuals who bring me joy. That sounds a bit selfish. But that’s okay. The whole premise seems easy to achieve. Yet, so many other people get in my way. …
Once in a while, I come up with a great idea. Bingo! One came to me. I live in a two-story home. There are 13 steps that take me to the second floor. For the first time yesterday, I counted the number of trips I take up the stairs in a single day. Rather shocking, …
